2012年8月29日星期三

Growth cannot exist without space!!!!!


In True Love We Trust and Give Space!!!! 



“Give him/her space!” Your friends and your intuition have been telling you to relax and chill out. So what can you do? Do you want to learn how to give space? falling in love is the easy part, but making a relationship work requires trust and understanding way beyond what you think when you start a new relationship.Every romance must deepen or die.True love then is unselfish and unconditional. Your love celebrates your lover’s independent growth without the need for you to possess or control. If you are wondering why you should trust your lover and give him space (or her), you might ask yourself why you are in a relationship in the first place. If you are in it mainly to possess comfort, sex, money, security, social or even self-acceptance, then love is not on your agenda. You can safely forget about it and continue on your mutual path of self gratification, possession, and power struggles.

So relax, breathe, and trust your partner enough to give him (her) some time and space; some room to grow.Just ask yourself: In an ideal world, what freedoms and support would I want from a genuine true love relationship? Now, just claim and extend that freedom and support in your current relationship, to see where it might lead. Let go a bit; test the waters of trust; support your lover’s sense of freedom and enthusiasm as much as your own. Do this, and you will see your relationship heal as you both grow into more complete individuals.
Don’t compete with your partner or try to possess them. Instead, celebrate your individual strengths. Support and encourage the best within each of you.
However you choose to give your partner space, or in what form you ask your partner for this trust and freedom, know that the space you give or receive is directly proportional to your growth as a couple.

The less you try to possess your lover, the more true love you will experience. Give space and be free!

START FROM NOW!!!!!!!! 

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